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To be of good behavior during social events is always what many try to achieve as this is what people see you for. A bad impression in a social gathering can ruin your image or reputation and there may be no chance to redeem the lost image. John from ogbodoma had a crush on a girl on the next street, they meet a couple of times. Things were going well to the extent that John was planning to marry his crush by december that year. Another friend from his work place that stays in the same street with John's crush tried to tell him that the girl in question does not have good composure outside especially when food is shared.
Few weeks to the day John planned proposing, they meet in a wedding party and when food was shared madam fought because she did not get a second plate of food. This alone lead to the end of the marriage planning. While this may not seem like enough reason to call off an engagement, many people will be ashamed to associate with a partner that cannot compose him/herself in a public function.
Social event can be thrilling and daunting but with the right mindset and style one can confidently navigate it without any stress. Here are some practical tips to be of good composure in a social function
How to be Confident in a Social Event
Dress well
Your outfit matters a lot, it is safe to say that your appearance can boost your confidence. Chose an outfit that aligns with the event dress code and also be mindful of the colour. If there is a colour for the day try to wear it or something related so ad not to look odd and attract unnecessary attention to yourself. When you feel good in what you are wearing, it will boost your confidence.
Body Language Speaks Volume
Confident body language is king. When you stand or sit with confidence, you project confidence to everyone else. So maintain eye contact, stand tall, sit or stand with your shoulders back and feet wide, offer a firm handshake. Try not to cross your arm or hunch your back as it discourages people approaching you.
Don't forget to smile as it seems friendly and welcoming, which will make people at ease around you
Be a Good Listener
A wise man said "before you speak, listen ". You should not be in a hurry to just speak as confidence is not just about speaking but listening also. Express genuine interest in others by actively listening to what they have to say. While you listen, ask open-ended questions to allow the discussion flow
Master the Art of Small Talks
Do you know small talks can just be the game changer you need? Yes, by just complimenting people, saying hi, striking small conversation about recent events, books or film can boost your confidence in a social event. Don't be afraid to first start the conversation and you can prepare a few conversation starter before hand.
Know your Limit
While it is good to be sociable, it is important to know your limit, don't be disturb people's peace. Don't be afraid to take a break from any gathering as it will help you to come back renewed.
As a matter of fact, you should let go and try not to take rejection personally when you don't click with someone. Not everyone's interest will align with yours, in such situations, you can make a polite excuse and move one. For instance, you can say it been great speaking to you but there's a friend there I wish to talk to and you walk away.
Radiate Positively
Confidence and Style go hand in hand with positive attitude, so leave every evil thought a home. Also avoid negative topics and compliment instead focus on uplifting topics to maintain a positive spirit.
Speak Slowly and Clearly
When you speak don't rush yourself because you are not in any competition or presentation. Take your time to speak, you can slowly talk to give you time to articulate and reason. Clearity is important as well, don't gable words.
Don't Compare Yourself to Others
Embrace your uniqueness and try not to compare yourself to other people. Do not for any reason what to behave like someone else probably in your mind or in the even group. Authenticity is magnetic and adds a touch of style to social events.
Stay Updated
Staying informed about current events, pop culture, celebrity lifestyle can give you an edge in conversation which in turn boosts your confidence. And before your respond or talk , think properly so as you don't just talk but give meaningful contribution to the discussion.
Conclusion
Navigating social events with confidence and style simply means striking balance between self assurance and genuine connection. Remember no one is perfect so embrace your uniqueness and practice these above tips to simply navigate social gatherings confidently.